As
we are waiting, we spot the social worker walking by. Looks like we are
good to go! They call us in. There is a court reporter, the prosecutor,
the social worker & another woman we haven't met before. The judge
does most of the talking. Through our court translator, the judge asks
why we want to adopt more children if we have 3 already. He asks why we
want to adopt from Russia & if Corbin's job is stable. He wants to
know where our 3 kids are now & if we have enough seats in our car.
He probes about adoption issues, special needs issues, cultural issues
& language issues. He wants to know how we have prepared for this
adoption & how much adoption education we've had. He inquires about how we discipline our kids & especially how we feel about
physical discipline. He asks about our church, schools, socialization
& if I'm willing to drive 5 kids to different schools every day.
Lastly, he asks if we have met the children & if we like
them. The prosecutor has only a few key questions for us. Then the
social worker gives her report. She sites some observations from our
visit with the kids. She mentions the fact the I traced their hands
& feet, that Corbin played trucks with O, that I played girl stuff
with L, that we bought them puppets, photos & a Skype-like video
from our kids, along with gifts for L & O for her birthday which we
will miss in a few weeks.
He
reads their files. He asks if we have any questions. He asks if we
would like to have anything reread again. He briefly retires to his
chambers. He returns & grants us the adoption of L & O! He says
congratulations & wishes me a happy early birthday. Our court
translator escorts us out of the courtroom while he speaks with the
social worker.
We
were not allowed to take any photos in the courthouse. I would have
liked a photo of him with us for the adoption book. As he leaves the
courtroom, he stops for a moment in the hallway to shake our hands &
congratulate us again.
We
get back to the hotel, pack our bags & leave for the train. The
next time we return to Kirov, we will be picking up our children's
paperwork!
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